I read an article somewhere about things that I wished i had learnt when i was younger ...and I came up with all the things that I have learnt /in the process of learning before I turned 40 ....here goes !
1. Failure is an option.
2. To feel comfortably different about being a little different.
3. How much my parents ,friends and family love me , and all the warnings I got came from a place of love.
4. My thoughts don’t have to dictate my life but they can shape my life.
5. Home really is where the heart is.
6. Being positive can really change my thoughts which can indeed change my life.
7. The jacket of life could be altered to suit me.
8. How to say No and not feel guilty!
9. The phrase ‘just try it’ applies to everything I do in life.
10. Not being perfect is okay
11. My thoughts actually control how I feel, and how I feel affects the way I see the world.
12. Never to settle for second best, whether it be in relationships, product choice, or employment.
13. Loving myself was a pre-requisite to truly loving others.
14. How to plan my finances better.
15. Everything I stress out about will not matter one year later.
16. My mistakes and choices define me as the person I am today.
17. Never to actively participate in gossip, it’s the black death of the soul.
18. Nobody can be changed, no matter how hard you try to change them.
19. It's Ok to be scared sometimes ,and it's Ok to sometimes just sit and cry.
20. My regrets in life stopped me from moving on. When it’s done, forget it and move on.
21. My friends have gone through their life and their experiences have changed them as have mine but they are still my friends and the friendship hasnt changed .
22. Change is inevitable, dont fight it befriend it.
23. Not to waste my time and mental energy on people who don’t matter in my life.
24. Life is a balance and I dictate the ratios.
25. It’s okay not to know everything.
26.Live in the moment, and not in the future or the past.
27. Trust myself and not lose the faith if sometimes the trust was misplaced
28. Not all people are bad, but not all people are good either.
29. What’s right for me is not necessarily right for others.
30. Responsibility can seem scary, when embraced it gives understanding acceptance and choice.
31.Spot genuine people and its Ok if I am wrong sometimes.
32. Some things have to come to an end to be able to experience new, exciting things in the future.
33. Trust my instincts .
34.The world is as big as I allow it to be.
35.I have choices, and my route may need to change but perseverance will get me through.
36. The world does not owe me any favours i need to earn what i want
37. The importance of knowing what is right for me and sticking to it even if it seems wrong to others.
38. All actions, always have a consequence.
39. My needs and desires will change over time and thats OK .
40. Doing what I want is not necessarily me being selfish.